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Sometimestheseasofyourrelationshipgetchoppy. Achievehappinessinyourmarriagethroughthefaithinthestrengthofthetwohearts,whosometimesforgetthegiftthey'vebeengiven.
YouWillNeed
Attention
Newoutlook
Soundfinances
Honesty
Silence
Steps
STEP1 Payattention
PaymoreattentiontoyourpartnerthanyoudotoyourhobbiesortheTV. Marriageisnotapart-timejob-- youcan'tachievehappinessinyourmarriageuntilyou'representandparticipating.
STEP2 Changetheoutlook
Changethewaybothofyouactandexperiencethemarriageinsteadofalwaystryingtorecapturesomefleetingmemoryofyourearlyrelationship, usingthesameoldineffectivemethods.
STEP3 Bethere
Givecredencetoyourspouse'sjudgment, tastes, interests, andopinions, sotheyknowtheymatterandhaveworth. Betheirstrongestsupporter, buddy, fan, andsoulmate.
STEP4 Managefinances
Manageyourfinancialsecurity. Facedebtandmoneyproblemstogetherbycreatingaplanthatwillhelpyougetyourfinancialsituationundercontrl. Relationshipsarehardenoughtosustainwithoutthefrictionmonthlybillscanintroduce.
STEP5 Takeahardlook
Whenyouencounterhardships, realizethatmarriageisn'talwayseasy. Trynottobeatyourselfuporblameyourpartner.Predictabilitycanbemonotonous. Don'tresisttheideathatmarriagesareupanddown, andarethereforealwaysinterestingworksinprogress.
STEP6 Shutup
Speakuptosolveproblems, butlimitbickeringbynotpickingafighteverytimeyourpartnerdoessomethingyoudon'tlike. Silence, ortakingafewmomentstothinkbeforeyouspeak, canhelpyouavoidunnecessaryconflict. Fixwhatyoucanchange-- whichismostoftenyourownbehavior.
STEP7 Pursueyourownthings
Allowyourselfandyourspousespacetopursueyourowninterests. Couplesdon'tneedtobejoinedatthehip. Observingthatabsencemakestheheartgrowfondermayaddsomeyearstothemarriage.
UniversityofChicagoresearchersfoundthatthehealthofmarriedpeoplewhobecamesingleagainthroughcircumstanceorchoicedeclined,precipitating20 percentmorechronichealthissues.
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